This page is a summary of things you would know or learn about me if you were to know me for a long, long, time.
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March 23, 2004
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Since this is 'self analysis' accuracy is not always guarenteed.
I am divorced but consider myself single. There were no children from the union, so the breakup was like being dumped by a boyfriend except there was a judge involved.
I've lived on Cape Cod all my life, but traveled for five years with the military. I have a dog, and a cat, but not both. They don't get along, so I have full time custody of my dog, my parents have guadianship over my cat.
I'm not a neat freek by any stretch of the imagination. I hate to spend the time cleaning up. Orgainization is also not my specialty. From a distance, you wouldn't be able to tell either of these things.
I have very long hair. When it is all done up you'd never know. With the long hair comes a few 'issues'... I shed. While dogs and cats might leave many hairs all over the place, I leave many long hairs all over the place. I choke vaccumns with the hair I have shed.
I drive a Saturn. Don't laugh at my plastic car!
I like Nascar for the crashes and the hot looking drivers. I think the following sports are ideal to nap to: Baseball, football, hockey, golf. I like Arena Football as an exception to the rule.
I'm an early riser. I'd prefer to go to bed early and get my day started at sun up. Sleeping in is not something I understand.
I'd rather buy a DVD then tickets to a movie. Same cost, different value.
I like to cook, but can be a diets worse enemy. Chicken is my favorite meat, but that's because I never mastered steak. Pizza is my downfall, but I can make it from scratch.
I don't have a pack of friends, just a few select people I really like to spend quality conversations with. My phone doesn't ring constantly, so I'm easy to get a hold of. Never a busy signal.
I'm a geek. Not hardcore, thick rim glasses, MIT dropout. Just run of the mill.
I don't like to feel stupid. I'd rather be taught and learn something then to be shrugged off.
I like to laugh. Laugh with me, at me, and make me laugh.
My friends decribe me as: Sweet, giving, understanding and hardworking. I disagree with that description.
I have no desire for children. I can't stand people who try to convince me otherwise. I can deal with children for short periods of time, but nothing more then a few hours. I'd like to be a surrogate for purely medical reasons, not for self-fullfillment.
I hate the term 'baggage' in reference to peoples emotional state. Baggage gets lost at the airport, not in a persons mind. And yes, we all have our personal struggles that we would like to loose at the airport, but can't seem to let the handle go.
I'm not perfect. Some people even call me a bitch. I accept that as long as I've earned it.
I believe in a womans right to choose: abortion, birth control, religion, and her own position in the world. While asking advise or opinion is quite alright, following someone blindly isn't acceptable to me.
I love to be out in nature if properly dressed. I'm not a city girl. I can visit the mall once a season and be happy with that. I'd be willing to move anywhere in the world if the situation was right. I don't mind traveling away from my families home base.
I collect the Christmas Bears from Kmart. They are in my bedroom on shelves. They are not sorted in any way.
I do not agree with drug use or abuse. I do not agree with heavy regular drinking. Glass of wine with dinner is one thing. Drinking every Friday night to the point you can't drive your ass home, not good.
I was sexually abused for ten years. It does not define who I am.
I know how to use many power tools, but the sound of a circular saw scares me. I want to own a pistol.
Online dating is cheating in my book. If you have to look to a computer for fullfillment, you have poor communication skills.
I listen to many different generas of music: country, rock, pop, swing, jazz...